Work hard, but love to work

We recently celebrated National Women’s Day (March 8th) and not long after women in Canada were being recognized for their outstanding achievements, leadership and support in the communications industry, here in Ottawa.

As a volunteer for this year’s CWC Awards Gala, I heard many speeches and gained much insight into the world of women in communications. The most memorable speech was by Carol Ring, Vice President, Strategic Initiatives, Rogers Communications Inc. Awarded CWC’s 2011 Woman of the Year, Carol relayed a key message I’ll never forget.

When asked how she does it all, she responded “I just don’t do it all.” It’s no Gandhi quote or a Shania Twain women in power lyric, but it struck a chord in the song I’ve been writing since beginning college. I’m not literally writing a song, but instead, living by the “told yous” and “shoulds” that have been emphasized during and post college.

Has someone told you to volunteer? How about taking on more work, so you can quickly learn and grow in your workplace? If you’re volunteering, you must feel on top of the world, because you’re making a difference. If you’re taking on more work at your job, you must be feeling fulfilled and worth a million bucks.

Hard work does pay off, especially lending a helping hand in your community. Even though there will be times you don’t have time to do laundry or you have no choice but to purchase takeout three times a day, you will quickly learn what you like and don’t like, and you’re going to meet great and not so great people, but the learning curve is priceless and so is your time.

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As you start or advance in your career, remember to find balance and focus on the important things. Whether it’s a 10k run, a bubble bath or practicing your next Glee performance, don’t lose your passion for what helps you wake up every day. Do what you love, even if it kills you.

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May your life-guide be with you

In 2009, Howard J. Breen, author of A page from a CEO’s Diary, presented to my public relations class, sharing his diary of success and failure, and how to live the life you deserve. The perfect discussion for aspiring students, his use of the term “life-guide” has been an inspiration and I feel everyone, at any age, should consider the term as well. Consider the great affects of surrounding yourself with smart, caring and helpful people or consider being one yourself.

Other than your parents, friends and family members, do you have a life-guide? Someone whom you admire their success and how they carry their lives?

They don’t have to be people you see on a daily basis. It could be someone you met once and haven’t seen in weeks or months. It could be someone who made an impact on your life without them knowing it. I admire those one’s the best. The one’s who subconsciously help me and provide guidance and don’t expect anything in return.

As Howard explains in his diary, he realized the need of help and advice from non-family members. As he watched those he worked with in the business world, people who deserved admiration, he quickly learned from them what to do to become successful and what not to do to lose everything.

As you advance in your studies and careers, “your life-guides are mentors whose words you will heed and whose actions you will watch and incorporate into your style.” – A page from a CEO’s Diary, Howard J. Breen, 2009 Howard Breen, page 48.

For me, a mentor is an inspirational person. Someone who provides positive, educational guidance with my success in mind. Thank you to my life-guides, I know the importance of helping others who seek my guidance. From writing elevator pitches to editing LinkedIn profiles, I help students and aspiring professionals when they call. Do I expect anything in return? Only a thank you…and maybe a Christmas card.

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Were we born to vote?

Back in the day I didn’t study politics, I even thought a Reeve was a member of the church. Maybe it’s due to the fact of learning it in French (or Pig Latin as we called it) or at the time it was a boring topic, but it wasn’t until college that I remember studying “real” politics. Even though it was hard to understand my professor’s thick Scottish accent (I couldn’t have asked for a better teacher), it was the book we studied Politics, Power and the Common Good by Eric Mintz, David Close and Osvaldo Croci and the in-class discussions that helped me understand more about Canadian history and the democratic institution it created.

I’ve never voted (yet) and I’m not proud of it, I’m frustrated. Frustrated with the lack of political education my amazing elementary/middle school board provided me, and I longed for the day when I had more influence from my personal mentors.

Is it that I moved too much, from multiple towns and districts to the big O? Did I lose my sense of belonging and the mean to fight for what I deserve? I know who my current councilor is, I know who’s prime minister and the Governor General, but what I don’t know is what, why or how. How did these people achieve their political power or what did they to do to deserve it? Why or how did they choose to do what they do? If there was only a quick and simple answer to clear the confusion and help me make it to the voting booth.

There always has to be a solution, or why else would we bicker and complain if we’re not trying to find one. So, I started researching. Not just anything, but researching what people I know are saying. People I consider to be smart and politically correct, or lack there of (why discriminate – no pun intended). I also did some research on the internet. Google provides us with an abundance of information to answer our questions, but as easy as it is to self-diagnose yourself (i.e. sickness, symptoms, relationship problems, etc), we all know “Googling” isn’t a legitimate way to answer all life’s problems. Step away from the Google-clinic.

Here are some quotes I’d like to share from my Tweeps. Courtesy of Twitter

  • “Canada is one of the lucky countries that gained a full democracy without loss of life. Thank you Queen Victoria.”
  • “We are lucky to live in a democracy. Canadians, let’s all pay attention to the campaign and plan to exercise our vote.”
  • “I am really hoping we can do this election right.. Inspiring leaders. Let’s not go down criminal pasts and political ads.”
  • “Watching history unfold. #election #hoc”
  • “Bye bye 40th Parliament. Hello election signs”

After many years, I finally took the time to understand the importance of political education (boring or not) and as much as I can’t transform the school boards, I hope someone who’s Googling “how to understand canadian politics” can benefit from these resources:

  1. Thanks to Senator Eugene Forsey (no personal connection, but this is great) students, teachers, legislators and ordinary citizens can learn and understand the Canadian government: http://www2.parl.gc.ca/sites/lop/aboutparliament/forsey/index-e.asp
  2. Even though this doesn’t make me feel like a born and raised Canadian, this was very helpful: http://www.canadianimmigrant.ca/article/1838

Education doesn’t stop here. Please feel free to recommend other resources or provide your own tips and advice. More the merrier!

Please do not post your beliefs (for or against) political parties, especially rants or political bashing.

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Public speaking gone weird

Public relations is more than a profession, it’s a promotion intended to create good will for a person or institution. It may seem apparent, but I find it difficult explaining to friends and family what I do, without them repeating, “so what do you do?”

If my father had a computer or a TV without rabbit ears, it would be easier to show him what I do, but what kind of communicator would I be if I relied on visuals to explain?

Over the last nine months, I have received honours in communications, presented to groups of 30 or more people, attended and organized elite events and have written many blogs, articles, media kits and publication materials, I’m starting to feel my resume can be transcribed into a novel. So how hard can it be to explain in words what I’ve been doing for the last nine months?

About a month ago, I felt honoured to speak as an alumnus to first-year public relation students. I feel excited when these opportunities come around, especially when given a chance to knock some sense into young minds. If only my 17 year-old sister was present.

As exciting as it was to accept this great opportunity, I was back to square one and thinking, “how do I explain what I do?”

Thankfully I was given tips on what to talk about, for example, a typical work day, bits of advice for succeeding in the program and on placement, and anything I have learned and are passionate about in this industry.

Feeling back in school again and researching presentation dos and donts, I began crafting the “Life Before, During and After the Diploma” presentation. Clearly I’ve been out of the groove, as I crafted this so-called presentation the night before the big day. I also didn’t consider my “real world” work due the next morning. What point am I trying to make? Between five hours of sleep, four hours of client work, an hour bus ride and 15 minutes to settle an empty stomach and practice the notes I barely remember writing, I was clearly unprepared to coach first-year students on what they should achieve in the next two years. Have I fallen so far down the learning curve I forgot two years of education in nine months?

I may be beating myself up right now, as we all know we’re our own worst critics, but it was definitely a kick in the butt and a major reality check. I love presenting and know it won’t be my last, so what can I take away from this spontaneous experience?

If you have been or don’t want to be in the position where you doubt yourself presenting to a group of people, you may or may not agree with the following suggestions:

  • Prepare, plan and practice. That’s a given.
  • Make your audience laugh. Feel free to throw in some anecdotes or joke about the little things. DON’T joke about your boss, but do I need to explain?
  • Be yourself. Talk about personal experiences. Be ‘one’ with the crowd.
  • Ask questions. Don’t just wait for the QandA. Engage with the audience during your presentation. It will keep them alert, increase interest and help you connect with them.
  • Move with the wind. A figure of speech, it also means don’t stand in one spot and put your hands where they can see them. Italians are known for talking with their hands. Emphasis on the “known.”
  • Refrain from “uh” and “um.” You and I are guilty of this, no matter what language we speak or which country we derived from. To help prevent fluency disruptions or “disfluencies,” don’t speak fast, remember to breath and listen to yourself. Rambling will only leave your thoughts behind.

These are only a handful of presentation tips, but like I said, I’m new at this. What else is new? Me on camera. I asked a colleague to tape my presentation. If you thought presenting was hard, try watching yourself. A month later I did, but I’m not brave enough to make it permanent on the Internet. If you’re interested, I’d be happy to share details and possibly a sneak peak and I’m always open for feedback/storytelling. I double dare you.

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Something worth fighting

May is considered one of the busiest months for citizens of Ottawa. Spring is in the air and with it brings exchanging old for new, swapping winter habits to summer diets , cleansing your inner palette, and finding a new, healthier you by tying the laces and hitting the gym or pavement.

The warm weather also takes you from behind closed doors and into the world alive with, but not limited to, barbecues, backyard and beach parties, garage sales, home renovations, and most evidently, community events and fundraisers.

Between maintaining a work life, enjoying extracurricular activities, personal makeovers and home renovations, who has time or money left for anyone but them self?

If there’s one thing citizens of Ottawa lack, it’s definitely not the ability to juggle a dozen commitments a day, let alone handling the pressure of “doing it all” and doing it well. We are after all, a city that doesn’t rest, right?

This past weekend highlighted Ottawa’s ability to come together as a community in support of many causes including: breast cancer awareness, being the most evident, children’s charities, healthcare and community initiatives, and animal cruelty awareness.

Breast cancer research ranks amongst the top causes Ottawans support and will do anything for -including running a marathon to raise money and awareness for what matters most: the women they love.

Six years ago, Dupuis Ford Lincoln in Casselman decided to take their fundraising initiative to a whole new level. For decades, marathon and Race Weekend participants have ran, biked, or rollerbladed across the Eastern Ontario region. A dealership stocked with horsepower and transmissions under their roof, Dupuis Ford Lincoln has a need for speed and the commitment to one of the longest community support initiatives in the Ottawa area. It was their passion and support from the community that helped create their unique and innovative fundraising event, the Mustang Poker Run.

This year, for their 6th annual Mustang Poker Run, not only did I have the pleasure of attending and working alongside the Dupuis Ford Lincoln race team, I witnessed the unfolding of their ground-breaking fundraising total of $101,666! Never been involved in an event like this, I was expecting sports car drivers with long ponytails and beards, ghastly smells of oil and gasoline, country-style folks with their dogs aside, and conversations not more than G’day and Let’er’go boys. My assumptions were wrong.

The fun-filled day was complete with caring families and their beautiful Mustangs, sports car drivers glowing with compassion and sporting t-shirts saying “Je t’aime ma femme” or “Je t’aime ma maman,” wonderful smells of the country air, stories of survival, honor and praise, and to correct me even more, I received a pink teddy bear wearing a breast cancer survival t-shirt. The time I spent at the Mustang Poker Run, taught me there’s more beyond the pink ribbon campaign than just tying up laces, or revving up engines to support a cause. There’s real people, true stories, and thousands of battles worth fighting.

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Goodbye classroom. Hello real-world.

As a soon-to-be public relations graduate, I’m excited, but feel pressured. There’s no doubt I’m confident with the skills and knowledge I have learned. At times I feel blessed having been accepted into a program that only accepts 40 applicants out of 200, sometimes more. The pressure, I think, dawns from the recent recession affecting employment opportunities and the transition from a learning student to a working professional. It screams competition! Some would say it could be worse, but everyday I feel like a broken record. I keep asking the same question over and over: what do I do?

In addition to being accepted into one of the best programs at Algonquin College, I also had the opportunity to meet some of the best PR and media professionals in Ottawa. They include: Stephen Heckbert, Andrea Petruzella, Peter Larock, Claudine Wilson, Al Urhyniw, Patti Church, Lee McCoy, Helen Flaherty, James T. Careless, Hailey Kahn, Marilyn Mikkelsen, and Peggi Stark Adams.

Even though they represent various areas of public relations, they are all mentors and I can’t thank them enough for relieving my concerns and, at times, lifting weight off my shoulders and helping me move forward. A great thing about having multi-faceted mentors is they all have different answers. This allowed me to analyze all sides of the story, or in this case the field, and I wasn’t limited to one outcome, or opportunity.

In four years, I have seized opportunities, rolled with the punches, and sometimes failed. Learned from mistakes, moved on, and have no regrets.

So, what do I do? To answer this, I’m going to share with you some words of inspiration from my mentors. Maybe you can benefit from these as well:

“Marks don’t matter. It’s what you learn and how you do it that matters most.”

“Every person you meet could be a potential opportunity. It’s not what they can do for you, but what you can do for them.”

“Volunteering is the most respectable work you’ll ever do. You’ll quickly learn what you like and don’t like and you don’t have to worry about getting fired in the process.”

“You may not always like what you’re doing, or who you’re working with, but that’s reality.”

“Complainers don’t get ahead in life. Those ahead, never complain.”

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Who are You?

Sam I am. I am a leader. I am a motivator. I am strong. I am a hard worker.  I am passionate.  I am unique. I am smart. I am a good communicator. I am a good writer. I am an athlete. I am caring. I am balanced. I am strategic. I am intuitive. I am open-minded. I am Sam. Who are you?

“Green eggs and ham” by Dr. Seuss is a cherished past-time memory growing up. Being a “Sam” provoked chuckles, rhymes, and many occasions where I would have to answer “No, I do not like green eggs and ham,” but I’m not embarrassed. I’m actually proud to know my name was published in an award-winning children’s book, or used as a romantic lyric in a famous country song called “Calling Baton Rouge.”

Everyone has a symbolic purpose to their name, whether it’s a famous actor or musician, a representation of a country or culture, or a traditional inheritance passed over centuries.

Your name is important. It is unique. It is a title. It is a symbol. It is you.

When you speak your name, are you confident? Do you represent your name to your family’s standards? If an employer were to search your name, would they approve of their findings?

Not only is your name an important symbol, it is the identity of your brand. Yes, you are a product, but you have the control to be used or refused.

In reading “The Brand Called You” by Tom Peters, he says everyone has a chance to stand out. Everyone has a chance to be a brand worthy of remark. Think for a moment how people would say your name. In what context are you addressed? Does your name boost conversation, or trigger silence?

Tom asks which messages and strategies are we using to promote ourselves. If our names wouldn’t light up the eyes of a prospective employer or command a vote of confidence from friends and colleagues, or — worst of all — if it doesn’t grab you, then there’s a problem. It’s time we give some serious thought and even more serious effort to imagining and developing ourselves as a brand.

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Kick it!

Not sure if it’s just me, but the most common discussion I’m involved in on a daily basis, whether it be during my lunch breaks, hangouts with friends, or late night shin-digs, is cigarettes.

Now that I think about it, these are the most common scenarios for people to engage in bad habits, or in my case, things my grandmother wouldn’t approve of. These include: swearing, drinking, mischievous clothing, and worst of all, smoking.

An avid smoker for six years, with occasional ‘breaks’ (meaning I stopped buying, but continued bumming), I am now smoke-free and for over a year! I don’t know exactly how long, but I can promise you, myself, and my grandmother, this is not another break.

What I can’t break away from is the on-going habit of my friends. I love them dearly, but I can’t help but pity them and their daily commitment of satisfying the monster who’s taking control of their life, health, happiness, and freedom. You may be thinking, monster? Yes! Like the one on the Nicorette commercials, or the ones living under your bed, or in your closet. Well, a little extreme, but you get my point. It sure isn’t sweet as sugar, or yummy as a gummy bear. It’s black like tar, smelly like a skunk’s belly, and tastes like chimney smoke. M-m-m sounds delicious!

If it weren’t for being smoke-free for this long, I wouldn’t have had the chance to fully enjoy the taste of food without smothering my plate with sauce, or spices, or the smell of my perfume without having to suffocate myself, because one spray isn’t enough, or the extra time I have to do things instead of wasting time puffing my life away.

I’m not a nutritionist, a mother, or an activist against smoking. I’m a 23 year-old who suffered long enough, satisfying a little monster who had control over my life, health, happiness, and freedom. Now, I’m in control. No more stinky breath, clothes, and hair. No more huffing and puffing while walking up stairs, and most of all, no more spending my hard-earned money on a controlling and disgusting habit.

Consider this: what are you losing by not smoking?

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